As a very young boy my foreskin was loose. An older boy taught me how to masturbate at a very young age. I already knew it was wonderful to play with. I masturbated as often as I could. My mother caught me and punished me severly. She told me how filthy it was to do, then later she caught me again and I got a bad beating. She said she would cut it off next time she caught me. I was able to quit for almost a year. The same boy who taught me how took me fishing at about this time. He had to pee and pulled his penis out pulled his foreskin back and started to pee. I needed to pee and just pulled my penis out of my pants and began to pee. My friend said you should pull back your foreskin.
I tried and got a shock, it would not pull back. I had hardly even touched my penis in all that time except to pee. Had not dared even play with my self. My friend says do you not do what he showed me a long time ago. I told him my story. He could not understand why I was told that by my mother. He told me I better get it loose or I would probably have to go to a doctor. I did not wish to go to a doctor for something like that… He began to help me with it over the next few weeks. A warm wash rag, soaking in the tub and trying to get it to move. We also coated it with vascaline after it would move some. After several weeks it could come back with out much pain. To this day I pull and play with my foreskin several times a day. I have 3 sons and I explained to them at a very young age how to enjoy and take care of them selves.
Parents or future parents teach you children how to enjoy and take care of the bodys. It is your duty.
Excellent story. That’s the issue…some parents just don’t want to take responsibility. So, if the child is uncut they ignore it…or at birth have the child cut. Which is a total shame. One father told me, with the excuse “I just want him to look like me”.
What? So, he wouldn’t have to be the one to tell him that it was wrong. What a choice.
BTW, thank-you for sharing your story.
Ok guys my turn to let you know my tight foreskin history.
When I was a kid I had a very tight forskin. It didnt fully cover the head so my piss slit and just the very tip of my cock head was always exposed. The skin didnt go foreward or pull back. I didnt know I had a problem till Dad started checking my little cock when I was about 11. He would take me into his bedroom and with my pants and underpants around my ankles he would hold my cock and look at it and then try to pull the skin back. I was always limp when he was doing this. He took me to a doctor because he was worried but the doctor told him I was too young to worry about yet and keep regularly checking my cock to see if the skin was getting looser. The doctor scared me when he told me I might have to get the skin cut of when I was older if it didnt get any looser.
This convinced me to keep trying on my own to pull the skin back even though it did hurt a lot. Eventually I was able after about a year of pulling the forskin on my by now seemingly always stiff cock that I was able to pull the forskin almost all the way back off the head. What I discovered is that the real problem was that the bit of skin just under my piss hole was really really tight. When I pulled back my skin off the head this bit of skin, that I think is called a frenulum, it was like a tight cord and used to go white and really hard. This is what used to cause me pain when dad first started to try and expose my head. It took me many years of tugging on my hard cock for this bit of tough skin to stretch enough to fully expose the head without any pain. Probably not till I was 15. Now that I’m a lot older and have been playing with my cock for many years I can pull my skin back so far that it looks like a circumcised cock, until i pull the skin back over the head that is.
So unlike many of you here who seem to have had a problem because the skin was just too tight, mine seemed to be caused by the bit of skin under my piss hole being just too short I guess.
A bit more info about me. My cock has a distinct down ward curve when erect. Been like that since I first started getting erections. Whether the two things are related, I don’t know, but would love to hear from others with the same problem I had.
Thanks for reading this.
Uncutbanana 
Another great story…thx for sharing. :rain:
You guys come up with some strange stories.
Obviously you come from circumcising cultures and your parents haven’t a clue how to look after an intact penis.
This interference from other people wanting to retract your foreskin is called “foreskin fiddling” and can cause tearing, bleeding and scarring.
The only person who should pull back a child’s foreskin is the child himself, and he will do that when he is ready . Foreskins should be retract actable fully by the age of 18 years, some earlier, it is a hormonal thing and each person is different.
It is very important to realize that there is no set age by which the foreskin and glans must be separated. Even if the glans and and foreskin separate naturally in infancy, the lips of the foreskin dilate only enough to allow the passage of urine.
Many doctors never learned about the normal development and care of the penis and are unaware that the foreskin should never be retracted by anyone, except its owner, and only when the penis has matured enough to make retraction free and easy
Is it necessary for the foreskin to be retractable in Adulthood?
No. Many adults enjoy the comfort and security of a glans that is covered most or all of the time, even during erection. At this stage of life, the foreskin almost always has fully separated from the head. Full retraction is sometimes avoided if the lips of the foreskin (the preputal orifice) resists stretching wide enough to permit the passage of the glans. There is nothing
wrong with this, even though many old-fashioned textbooks and many uninformed doctors (most who are circumcised) think that this is a problem called “phimosis”.Contary to medical myth, a narrow preputal orifice does not make hygiene
difficult. On the contary: Important studies have found that the penis with a narrow foreskin opening is perfectly clean. Urination through the foreskin actually keeps the penis clean and fresh.It is a beautifully designed system that functions with perfectly efficiency.
In adults who still have a foreskin that is attached to the glans or a foreskin with such a narrow opening that the glans cannot easily pass through it, steroid creams are a conservative therapy. This “therapy”, however, need be employed only if the adult wants a foreskin that fully retracts. Many males prefer a foreskin that remains securely over the glans. It is purely a matter of personal choice, one that each male can decide for himself.
A small fraction of adult males have a foreskin that resists full retraction. If this is due to attachment at the glans to the foreskin, and if the man wants them to be separated, these attachments can easily be gently separated at the doctor’s office with local anesthesia. Circumcision is hardly necessary.
If the foreskin resists retraction because the diameter of the preputal orifice is narrow, this can also be remedied if the man wants it to be remedied. french researchers found that a simple regime of daily manual massage and stretching of the foreskin can greatly increase the diameter of the adult preputal orifice. Penile skin is highly elastic and responsive to stretching. These exercises are simple,free, and effective.It is interesting to not, however, that males with non retractable foreskins
are happy just the way they are. They enjoy the security, the streamlined look, and the feel of a foreskin that always covers the glans. Genital cleanliness is just as easy with a nonretractable foreskin. It may even enhance sexual activity.
Since the foreskin is double-layered , the upper layer can slide over the inner layer, thereby stimulating the glans and, simultaneously, being stimulated by the glans. A foreskin that remains in place during erection is always in a state of readiness for this natural and efficient mechanical mode of penile stimulation.
Asking for help on this list may end up giving you some weird and totally horrendous ideas, this is understandable as America has been a circumcising culture for so long they do not know how a normal penis works.
SINCE no one has ever told me about my foreskin, i accidentally discovered it is retractible during one bath day when i was about 9 or 10 years old. At first i was scared and hesitant to pull it back all the way, but then at the same time i was excited with what i have seen the first time, my GLANS!!! So i said to myself, What the Heck!
It was quite an experience seeing a part of my dick i have never ever seen before since the day i was born, plus, it was the first time i cleaned myself of the smegma that has accumulated throughout my early years in life! Undeniably i panicked right after my discovery for i thought i might have harmed my dick and innocently hoped my prepuce would tighten to its original state. Funny huh. :stretch:
I think it was when i started reading the Life Cycle Library volumes (on Sex Education) at home that i learned that my foreskin and its retractible properties is perfectly normal. 
Hi ! I’m a french men 44 years old. In France, we have not the “circumcision culture” as in USA. Babies are never circumcised, except for jewish religion. So, when I was young, I had the exactly same problem as Uncutbanana. When I was a child, my foreskin was long and had a narrow overhang opening. I never pull back untill 7 years old. During holidays in my grand parents’ house, I saw my cousin Franck having pee. Franck was 12. I was very surprise he pulled back on the skin of his penis, and let appears a “curious ball” under his skin. I saw pee exit from the hole of this “ball”. It was a great surprise for me beacause I never saw mine ! I asked my cousin and he explained me … and said me to show him my cock. So I tried to retract my foreskin, but it was to tight and Franck made me hurt … During several long months, I don’t touch my prepuce, because I was afraid … Three years later, another holidays afternoon, I was with my grandpa in the garden. At a moment, he had to pee, and as my cousin Franck, pull back the skin of his penis. But I noted at this moment that my grandpa 's foreskin was shorter that Franck’s or mine, and doesn’t cover all glans, but only the half of it. I his glans was bigger too !!! My grandpa was a very openmind man, and I asked him, why he pulled back his skin to pee ? He replied me because of hygienics conditions. As my cousin before, he asked me to see my penis. I said “yes” without problem because I loved my Grandpa et he was a sort a “god” for me. So he tried to discover my glans, but … He can’t. So he explained me I had a tight foreskin and proposed to help me. During severals weeks, my grandpa, pulled slowly on the skin, help his movements with kitchen oil on fingers and glans. But my grandpa saw I had another problem. The same uncutbanana had. The frenulum was very tight and as a white and hard little cord. If My grandpa pull on it, it became very white and painfull. So this is what cause me pain and problems to really discover glans. To fully expose my glans, Grandpa said me start to stretch on the frenulum every day and at each pee. But I was difficult because of pain. Sometimes, Grandpa stretched himself on my frenulum, and continued to dilate overhang orifice. Sometimes too, he pull back the foreskin at it maximum course it can and stretch more hard on the frenulum. This one became very white and painfull … When I was 14 years, I had my first intercourse experience … It was a special experience for me because it was a great pleasure and painfull too ! I had intercourse and at the top of pleasure and cum … The frenulum ripped ! :eek: It broke completely and foreskin was not attached under gland as before. The foreskin was free … It was a very little blood vessel (2/3mn) and little painfull for 2 days, but after, I was enjoyed because my prepuce can fully retract. Today, as Uncutbanana, I can fully expose glans, and when foreskin is pulled back during erection, you can’t do a difference with a circoncise erect penis. In flaccid state, the foreskin go forward itself and continue to cover all the glans, with a nice 1,5 cm overhang. But, after 30 years, there is no subsist sign of frenulum except a very little scare. :biglaugh:
Thanks for the reply.
Luckily my frenulum didnt rip. Sounds painfull. Mine is fully stretched now but still looks white when stretched.
Did u ever get stiff when your grandpa helped pulling back your forskin?
Uncutbanana
Hi Uncutbanana !
I don't remember I became hard when my grandpas stretched on my frenulum, because sometimes it was painfull, above all he pulled back the foreskin as far as it can goes ! The frenulum became completly white at these moments. And if sometimes maybe it get stiff, I think I would became soft immediatly ! :biglaugh: I think now Grandpa had try not only stretched on frenulum and foreskin to get them more long and large, but maybe, rip himself my frenulum. I think it was why he sometimes pull on it so hard. So Grandpa never succeed, if he volontary wanted to break the frenulum, but he made a success of enlarge my foreskin opening.
After, in my adult life, I never have any problem with that ... :wink:I do remember thinking about cutting my frnulum myself when I was maybe 14 or 15 but chickened out.
Probably a godd thing I did. Hearing about you though maybe it would have been berrter if i had. After all my problem was not so much a tight foreskin but the really short and not stretched frenulum.
Uncutbanana
I did cut my frenulum a little when I was about 18 cause I wanted to look cut and the frenulum kept my foreskin over the head. I was working at a hospital that Summer I so got some novocaine and a scalpel blade and cut it a little. it really stretched out after that and I could pass for cut!! Now I wish I had proudly displayed my uncut penis all those years like I do now!!
I have sence then been stretching the skin to have some overhang and that has been working too.
Dale
This discussion has opened something new to me. I never gave any consideration to my frenulum or really recognized its existence during my early masturbatory years. I now remember – many years later – that once when a boyfriend of mine and I were mutually masturbating each other – he was cut and I was uncut – that he once gave a mighty tug on my foreskin, and I suddenly began to bleed – bigtime – on my underpants and pants. It hurt, and the sight of my blood made me feel sick. When I returned home I was careful to hide the evidence as much as possible from my parents who did my laundry in those teen days. I worried considerably, but things healed in a day or so and I had no more bleeding. So being too vigorous with an uncut penis and an unrecognized frenulum can be a frightening thing. I wish I had known at age 18 what I am now learning at age 79!
i had the same too.
My dad stretched my phimosis since i was 8. When i was 12 he told that i was too old, so he forced me to circumcision :’(
Hi ! I'm a french man 44 years old. In France, we have not the "circumcision culture" as in USA. Babies are never circumcised, except for jewish religion.
Good to hear from a continental European. However, the main cause of circumcised dudes in your country, man, is Islam, not Judaism. If a man looks Mahgrebeen and has a berber or arabic name, but also a foreskin, he can face some very unpleasant questions. Meanwhile, maybe half or more of French men who call themselves Jews are uncut. And damn few “Juifs francais de vielle souche” are cut.
Reports on USA pro-circ web sites by American men who have used the changing room in French sports clubs sometimes report that 5-10% of men look cut.
These men are unaware of the large Moslem presence in France, and to the fact that many adult men have incomplete coverage and can retract very
easily. Other reports claim that France is open-minded about circ to a degree I find curious. For example, an American friend of mine went to a nude beach in Greece, where his penis was examined in loving detail by excited young French women.
Of the fifteen boys in my small-town school class, the three of us born in May of 1953 were not circumsized. The same doctor delivered all of us, but we three remained uncut. I don’t clearly remember the events leading up to this, but I apparently was having painful erections as a toddler. My doctor used a small scalpel loosen my foreskin from the glans. I had a lot of pain after the procedure. That was also the beginning of nightly manipulation and washing of my penis by my mother. I can remember times when she was washing me and company would come over and they would see me. I was so embarrassed! I don’t remember when she “handed” the responsibility over to me, but I stopped doing it for a while. I remember several years later getting a painful erection and pulling the foreskin back on my own. It hurt terribly, but I didn’t have to go back to the doctor. I know retract my foreskin and wash beneath it carefully every day.
I do find myself a bit envious of men who must manually retract their foreskins even when they have an erection. I was camming with a guy from France who needed to do that. It was very cool!
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“… ®eports claim that France is open-minded about circ to a degree I find curious. For example, an American friend of mine went to a nude beach in Greece, where his penis was examined in loving detail by excited young French women.” Monica
One summer an American friend of mine visited a nude beach in France, only to have his foreskinless penis become the center of attention. A crowd gradually gathered around him to discuss this strange American phenomenon … which experience totally embarrassed my friend. It had, however, the good effect of prompting him to question the whole, strange American practice of circumcision.
We became acquainted when he joined my foreskin restoration group: http://www.norm-phoenix.org/
rood,
your picture says before restoration…so as someone who is in the process of restoring any picts of the after…i posted my progress on my profile, have been doing it a year now and i am pretty happy with the results so far…can’t wait for more…lol…
any advice please feel free…
tonytheplane